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all men are jerks until proven otherwise

Posted by on May. 1, 2013 at 6:29 PM
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Its the best advice book I've ever read . Its not only about bashing men its about how naive and easy women can be fool how desperate they are to be loved and the things they are willing to accept . Its also about seeing it from a mans point of view. And many many more . And even though my ex turned out to be a jerk I blame myself cause I made it easy for him to walk all over me .

And its true when you let go of the hate its much easier to move on
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cholita1978
by Member on May. 1, 2013 at 6:33 PM
By who? I mean who is the author? I would like to read it
cholita1978
by Member on May. 1, 2013 at 6:35 PM
Never mind, I googled it :-)
kitty8199
by on May. 1, 2013 at 6:44 PM
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Wow. Sounds like a book written by a misogynist.
Blaming the woman for being treated bad?
I don't agree with the all men are jerks thing. They're not.
Sounds like a good way to push out a good guy.
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maddiemommy2009
by on May. 1, 2013 at 6:56 PM
I kniw everyone has there own opinion but u should read it


Quoting cholita1978:

Never mind, I googled it :-)

maddiemommy2009
by on May. 1, 2013 at 6:58 PM
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All men are jerks until proven other wise hun .

Read the book before u judge its not a one sided book . But to each his own all im saying the book made some very obvioys and clear puts about myself when it comes to dealing with men . Like I said to each his own


Quoting kitty8199:

Wow. Sounds like a book written by a misogynist.

Blaming the woman for being treated bad?

I don't agree with the all men are jerks thing. They're not.

Sounds like a good way to push out a good guy.

kitty8199
by on May. 1, 2013 at 7:40 PM
From your description, it sounds like victim blaming. It's not a woman's fault if a guy does her wrong.
It's his. And no, all men are not jerks. That attitude will keep you single forever.


Quoting maddiemommy2009:

All men are jerks until proven other wise hun .



Read the book before u judge its not a one sided book . But to each his own all im saying the book made some very obvioys and clear puts about myself when it comes to dealing with men . Like I said to each his own




Quoting kitty8199:

Wow. Sounds like a book written by a misogynist.


Blaming the woman for being treated bad?


I don't agree with the all men are jerks thing. They're not.


Sounds like a good way to push out a good guy.

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maddiemommy2009
by on May. 1, 2013 at 7:44 PM
You sound ignorant read the book hun .

I'm finish with you .
cholita1978
by Member on May. 1, 2013 at 7:56 PM
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I got nothing against men, but after my divorce I've learned to be cautious, I haven't read the book and I know now all the red flags that were there with xhusband, but chose to ignore them because I thought that was as good as it was going to get.

Kitty8199 if you don't like the post keep going plain and simple.
maddiemommy2009
by on May. 1, 2013 at 8:01 PM
I know right i'm not saying they are all jerks also . The book is not saying they are all jerks and that's it.

There's more inside the book but one main point is women tend to think and assume to quickly give it time let him prove otherwise . Dont assume because he buys u flowers or open the car door or call u everyday that he's the one I'm just saying women set themselves up for dissapointment sometimes and so does men .

Geez people can be so judgemental.


Geez people can be so judgement
maddiemommy2009
by on May. 1, 2013 at 8:15 PM
I don't know if you are into reading these types of books like me there's one called Its call a breakup cause its broken. That was a good one to its more about women stories and how they got through it .
I was never into these type of books but some not all makes good point and they make u see things from a different point of view .


Quoting cholita1978:

I got nothing against men, but after my divorce I've learned to be cautious, I haven't read the book and I know now all the red flags that were there with xhusband, but chose to ignore them because I thought that was as good as it was going to get.



Kitty8199 if you don't like the post keep going plain and simple.

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