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Letting kids in bed with bf not the daddy

Posted by on May. 2, 2013 at 5:41 PM
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 Do/ would you let your kids play in bed or sleep in bed with your bf that is not your kids dad? The kids do have a dad. It's not me. My bf freaks if my DS comes in our room while he's in bed. My DS has learned not to go in our room anymore unless it's just me and him home.

I'm asking b/c I was being bad and looking at bf bitch of BM FBpage. She has a pic of her bf in bed, and bf kids playing. I think bf would be pissed but I can't really tell him that I saw this pic. I feel it's wrong for him to be in bed with bf kids. It wasn't just bf kids, it was a couple other kids too (BM bf nephew and BM neice)

What would you do?

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krisnkids
by Gold Member on May. 2, 2013 at 6:16 PM
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Heck no.
aidensmom0407
by Member on May. 2, 2013 at 6:27 PM
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 no way...I wouldn't want DS in bed with ex's GF either. 

Tsmommy106
by Member on May. 2, 2013 at 7:43 PM
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What should I do about what I know? Should I tell him that his ex is letting their kids play in bed with her new bf? He'll want to know how I know. It's mostly b/c I don't trust him & I've caught him in lies from her page, that I keep track of her page.
KPBMom
by on May. 2, 2013 at 10:53 PM
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Quoting Tsmommy106:

What should I do about what I know? Should I tell him that his ex is letting their kids play in bed with her new bf? He'll want to know how I know. It's mostly b/c I don't trust him & I've caught him in lies from her page, that I keep track of her page.

Why are you still dating him?????

Mom to DD19, DS18 & DD7
conniejo75
by Bronze Member on May. 2, 2013 at 10:57 PM
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Playing ON the bed when both of you are in there (not just bf)... I don't see an issue. Now sleeping IN the bed with both of you, I can see issues there.
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by Jayme on May. 2, 2013 at 11:42 PM
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I don't think its appropriate for children to sleep in the bed with adults that aren't parents/relatives. Playing in bed is ok.
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Andrewsmom70
by Silver Member on May. 2, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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It's not your place to say. Don't be a shit stirrer.
Monsita
by Bronze Member on May. 3, 2013 at 12:12 AM
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sealed lip

krisnkids
by Gold Member on May. 3, 2013 at 8:30 AM

Its time to move on and stop stalking your ex.

Tsmommy106
by Member on May. 3, 2013 at 9:36 AM
Really, I don't know. I'm kind of stuck now in my lease till Aug with him. It's easier to just be his gf then fight every single day & deal with him throwing tantrums worse then a 2yo. There is still a stupid part of me that loves him & wishes he was different.

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Quoting Tsmommy106:

What should I do about what I know? Should I tell him that his ex is letting their kids play in bed with her new bf? He'll want to know how I know. It's mostly b/c I don't trust him & I've caught him in lies from her page, that I keep track of her page.

Why are you still dating him?????

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