See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So Long story short...I gave my daughters dad a chance after he cheated on my while I was pregnant and then with a different girl got her pregnant when my daughter was only 4 months old. He never visited her or helped me take care of her and just gave me money each month. All I've ever wanted was a family so when he tried to get back together with me I gave him a chance after he joined the marine corps. He fed me all this bs and told me if I didn't marry him then that's the end, we can't live with him because we won't be able to afford it if we weren't married (BAH). Well I didn't want it to be the end so I agreed even tho I didn't want to get married but I felt I had no choice. We moved with him and it didn't work. What are my chances at getting custody over my daughter? I know we're married but he has never been there for her. We only lived with him for two months but he was gone all the time...I even kept record of his visits when we weren't together, saved text messages. I will die if I have to share her with him :( he has never been there for her. And still has no idea how to take care of her...which tells you how much he helped in the two months we lived with him.