Here is a question for all you divorced moms out there. I am currently in the process of getting a divorce. My marriage was somewhat short of a living hell, and I honestly haven't loved the man in a long time, so there is nothing left on my end. I don't even think about him to tell you the truth. But I do have feelings for another man. My best friend of over a year. How soon is too soon to start dating? I know a lot of people say you can start dating just don't introduce the men you go out with to your kids right away, but this situation is a little different because my kids already know him. They have known him and got used to seeing him almost everyday. He was always at our house hanging out and towards the end of my marriage the kids were seeing him more often than their own father. But it wasn't until after I filed for divorce that he admitted he had feelings for me for a long time. So what do I do? How soon is too soon?