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Any other unwed single moms w/o sperm donor in picture?

Posted by on May. 10, 2013 at 9:04 AM
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I have been visiting a lot of single parent communities online and finding a lot of divorced single mothers, unwed single mothers whose children's biological fathers were involved within the first few years or still are in some capacity, but very few single mothers whose child's father (sperm donors) simply up and walked away.  I had this happen to me and would like to meet others who are in my shoes.   Is there anyone else here who is a single mom of a child under the age of 5 whose child's father walked away at conception/birth (within the first year and you haven't heard from or seen him since) and you are not dating or in a relationship?  

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starry_mom
by on May. 10, 2013 at 9:12 AM
My sons sperm donor hasn't been in the picture since my son was 9 months, and my daughter's sd hasn't been in the picture since I was 10 wks pregnant, divorce was finalized when I was 6 months pregnant...
sid1083
by Silver Member on May. 10, 2013 at 4:03 PM
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You have very specific search criteria. Good luck finding people who fit all of them.

lillsmom09
by Member on May. 10, 2013 at 4:06 PM
Does court count? That would be the last time I saw sperm donor. And, he has never been in my dd's life.
heretolisten
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:16 PM

How has life been for the two of you who are in similar shoes?  Being single mom on your own completely with a newborn/infant/toddler?    I don't think it's a lot of specifics sid ... I'm simply trying to find other women who can completely relate to what my life has been like. If the numbers are minimal, then that explains a lot about why so many can't understand what I go through every day.  

sweetsavannah10
by Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:17 PM

One of my good friends got pregnant from a guy she was dating for 3 years. When he found out she was pregnant, he walked away. Best of luck to you!

diaperstodating
by Angel on May. 10, 2013 at 11:18 PM
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Connorsmommy13
by Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:20 PM

Ummm I kicked him out because he was doing drugs and tried to drown the demon out of our baby does that count...he isnt under the age of five though...but havent heard from him since our baby was 13 months old and he is now 8

Jenn8604
by Silver Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:39 PM
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my son will be 5 in June and he has never met the sperm donor and NEVER WILL!! Ee split when I was 5 1/2 mos prego he laid eyes on him for the first time when he said it wasnt his, when we went for a DNA test and when cs was ordered and that's it. He will NEVER see MY son again either. He was arrested for child porn.
dating???? what's that??? I haven't been on a date since the last time the douche took me to the bar while he sat and drank and he was kind enough to let me play pool. If you want to call it a date.
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Kelsnick23
by New Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:42 PM
My daughters father met her once. Haven't heard from him since. She's 19 mos.
Kazmira222
by Bronze Member on May. 10, 2013 at 11:50 PM
I'm 20 yo and I've never been married. My sons father was never really around much unless I instigated to see him. My son is now 4 1/2 mo and his father doesn't even try to see him and blames me for never seeing him. He has a gf and is using meth again. So he can just go sit in a corner and pout about it until he gets a reality check. I am quite happy being a single mom, but I do have my moments.
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