I am wondering how do you always control not saying anything true but mean about the deadbeat irresponsible fathers? Who wont pay, never calls ,Christmas/Bday presents ....yeah right I mean no effort at all. I do not do this but some days it's beyond hard. I want to scream and cry. I like many other single mothers and mothers in general am on maximum level in the stress department. I try so hard to move on fake smile and pretend nothing matters but on the inside I'm always crying. I have a 2 yr old who constantly asks about his dad. I have yet to come up with a answer I just hug him and go buy him a special treat which I sometimes can't even afford. I am so afraid one day they my 3 kids will catch me weak and I will lose control and tell them what a POS he is. I don't want that to happen they are innocent I'm just so hurt and angry .I'm angry he is being this way and I'm angry I am so dumb I fell for (in my sarcastic voice) a "nice" man like him lol. It's amazing how you can be with someone for years and they just completely transform into a stranger overnite on you.