I was hoping that someone out there might have a suggestion about what I can do with may situation. I have 3 children and have been divorced for about 4 years now. My EX lives in another state and owes more then $50,000 in arrears. I have taken him back to court for contempt twice and he still does not pay. My case was filed with Child Support Services before my divorce was final and I know they have done all they can to help collect the back support. I spoke with them this morning and was informed that there is nothing eles that can be done. The state he lives in is pusuing the support issue and I will just have to wait to see if he ever decides to pay. By choice he has not seen his kids in two years and rarely talks to them. He calls once a year on their birthday. The kids use to call him but were disheartened when they realized he never called them and that if they wanted to talk to him they had to initiate the call. They don't believe he cares about them because he now has a new family with three new kids. With all the laws put in place to help single parents and prevent this deadbeat parent status you would think that something else could be done. The two time I took him back to court I won the cases but they porvide lienency for him and order him to pay yet he crys poor and refuses. I have proof that he is purchasing large ticket items like ATVs and JET Skis but that does not seem to make a difference. He hides his new busines behind his girlfriends name and use her lisence for everything, making it difficult for Child support services to do anything. Is there anyone out there who has had a similar experience that can offer advice to get some of that arrears paid?