Have you done it? Do you think it's a good idea or a bad one? Why?
Ive done it a few times and I am still single so what does that tell you? LOL!
Not for me.
Quoting Robsessed98:I think it depends who it is, what your relationship was before the date and circumstances in general. I don't believe in having a minimum date rule. I've always taken it on an individual basis.
Not a good idea if you want something serious.
I'm not happy about this but once . My divorce was final and I was lonely . My ex and I had a bad marriage . Anyway I met someone and we talked on the phone for 2 weeks. I know not long but he gave me the speech he was falling for me and I was liking him a lot . Even though I just got out of a 10 year marriage there was no intimacy for over 8 years . My ex was just not with me . I went to this guys house to watch movies . He told me what I wanted to hear and well you know the rest . When we were chatting he said something very rude that made me cry . It was along the lines of I hold back and need let go and something very rude after that . So I left . I went home crying cause I felt like a slut . I talked to him the next day and he insulted me again and I never talked to him again . I'm not happy about it and I know I wasn't ready to day cause I didn't know how to love myself . Working on that but this took me a while to get over and never again . I never been like this .
I guess you could call it our first date, but was our second time meeting one another and we ended up at the end of the hanging out together lol. He is with me now though still, I don't regret it since that was something we both wanted some how. I wasn't looking for something, he wasn't either and so happens we got past that level into more. He could have walked away, and truly that was the first time I did that so fast. I made my x, and BD wait a month to get to that level. He had something about him I was drawn to. I had to have a piece of that ;), and I still get to have it thankfully.
It works sometimes, or it doesn't. If not hey you weren't attached luckily, and was a clean get away hopefully protection was worn. An no first time bang child was made lol.
Quoting Stephd710:Ive done it a few times and I am still single so what does that tell you? LOL!
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