My dauther had an altercation with a boy at school and now his mom wants to speak to me
According to my dauther, a boy at school called her a pervert when she attempted to push him away from her friend. He said that she touched his "man boobs" and that made her a pervert. She, in turn, called him an a-hole (believe me, I am mortified at this).
The boy's mother now wants to speak to me to "settle the matter."
This is the first time I have had to deal with this situation, and my daughter tells me that this woman is "mean." That alone has me on pins and needles.
Anyone else been through a similar situation? How did you handle it? Were both kids present and did any of them (including your own child) lie about the altercation in order to save face? I believe my daughter is telling the truth, but she has also been known to lie at times. She actually came to me in tears yesterday when she found out the boy's mother wanted to speak to me. I think she realized the consequences of calling other kids names, so I hope this turns out to be a good lesson for her.
The woman and her son will be here at 1:00 today. I don't want to get into an argument with her and I hope the outcome is that both kids will apologize and everyone will go away happy. Is that usually the end result? Advice appreciated. Thank you.