Hi, I am 17 weeks pregnant and have just joined this group. My story is complicated but not any more adverse than those I have read about. Essentially, my husband and I are separated, have been for the past 9months, we met up again in February to try and work things out, I became pregnant. Unfortunately he had been seeing someone while we were separated and was not completely honest about the extent of their relationship. On Easter weekend, he found out and told me she was pregnant. We were a week apart. Supposedly she had an abortion, of this I am uncertain. As I was hopeful I could make this marriage work, I have now begun the grieving and healing processes to letting that go. I will be doing this without him as I know I deserve happiness and he is not capable of this. There are many things for me to consider. I have an appointment with an attorney in August, baby due in November. I have always wanted children and wanted this prior to our separation, he was not able to wrap his mind around this, so in many ways, I feel tremendously blessed. I have huge anxieties regarding finances and time management on how to make all this work. I appreciate any feedback, suggestions you may have on this topic but would also like to say, thank you. This can not be easy, and many of you have lived through tragedies, heartache and pain to arrive were you are today. Here is to the strength of a mother.