Is turning 19 this Saturday. My ex has completely cut her out of his miserable life. The last time we saw him was in court back in April. He walked right by us and didn't even bother recognizing our daughter. He simply treated her like she was nothing to him. How utterly cold.
Before that my daughter talked to her father the day after his birthday. That's when he chewed her out for forgetting his birthday. He was vile and evil to her on the phone. Verbally abusing her. Since December, I had to block him from calling her. He was abusive to her before that as well. I had no choice but to cut him off from abusing her any further. I doubt he does anything for her on Saturday, Friday or even on Sunday. He knows where she works and can come see her anytime. But, he's refused.
It's a hard dose of reality knowing just how much my ex has screwed up his life and how he has now decided to treat our daughter. She's innocent in everything. A good, sweet, honest and kindhearted person that certainly deserves a much better father in life.
For all the moms that have deadbeat, loser, scumbag exes like mine, here is a group hug!