See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok, i am the ONLY single girl out of all my friends who live in the same state as me. Most of the time it isnt a problem.
I was just messaging my best friend. I told her this year that I want to do something for my birthday in July. Last year I didnt do anything but sit at home by myself (my girls were at their dads) and it made me majorly depressed. Im not expecting a huge party every year but all my friends husband plan dinners and stuff for them, well I dont have that and I feel stupid planning my own party, I feel like Im begging people to acknowledge me, lol!
Well anyway, I told her I want to do something. She said "yeah we will do something, even if its just dinner. But only if boys are allowed!" WTF man!! I didnt say anything about it being all girls, but now that I think of it, that sounds fun to me! A girls night. My bff is totally anti-girls night. I dont know why....well I do know why...shes stuck up her hubbys butt. They dont go anywhere alone. She will do work lunches with me alone but thats it, anything else and its "Cany my hubby come?" I like him and all, but sometimes its nice to be alone with your girlfriends. Maybe its just me being single that makes it so annoying but damn! I didnt expect her to just come out and say it like that. So now its making me not want to do anything because I'm going to have to be the 5th wheel again ON MY BDAY! Ugh.