Boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and we have not introduced our kids to the other yet. Kids are staying with Ex Dh (dad) for the summer so we have been spending more time together. I own a home and he has an apartment. His job has been slow so he has been off work a little bit more than usual. He called the other day and I told him I was busy cutting the grass so he said he would call back later. He later said "oh I started to come over and cut your grass since I was off". I hadn't even thought or expected anything like that but it got me to thinking...should I or do you guys expect your bf to help out with anything? It sort of pissed me off only after he mentioned it. I mean he has been off and I work and maintain the house...it would have been a nice gesture but again...you know what they say about expectations. I wish he would have never made the statement.