So here is something I wanna ask you ladies... do you love high heels?
I don't wear them every day, but a lot. Specially in summer. Wedges rock.
I do love my shoes. I am 5'8 so when I put on a pair of 3" to 4" heels I am hitting the heights.
I have indeed had relationships with confidence men, who were shorter than me that actually LOVED it when I had on my heels and towered over them. They beamed with pride, that such a woman would be on their arm.
Then I have dated a few men my height that were completely INSECURE and hated it when I was taller.
They shit talked high heels, claimed they hated them. LOL When I know for a fact, their short ex-gf's sported heels all the time. So umm yah, heel hating is a bad cover up for a man's inferiority complex.
And for the record, I can dance, I can walk, even run need be, I do everything in heels. Sure some times I might walk a little slower - but what is the rush in life? If I am out and look fine in my heels, why do I need to break a sweat to get somewhere?
Earlier this year, I went out for a rare night out *you single mommies get how precious it is* so I indulged in wearing a pair of ridiculous heels. I danced and had a great time, not the least bothered by my heels. However, my ride for the night (hestiant to call it a date) however had his car towed. Yeah, so we had to wander around in a crappy part of town, on cobble stone to attempt to hail a cab before all the others. He was pissed that I couldn't run after one. Seriously. Major fail on his part. Blaming me for his failure, even bigger loss.
Anyway, I love my heels. Thank goodness my new man is nice and tall - but most of all not insecure!
What about you? When you get the chance do you sport some heel?