Here's where my problem lies. I went to court to get custody of my son in 2008. My sons father never showed so I got sole physical custody and he got no visitation. I did however go after him for child support. He was court ordered to pay $25 a month. My son has never seen a dime, but I'm ok with that. He is my son, I can take care and provide for him on my own. My sons father has not seen my son since the day I walked out. Today I am married to a lovely man who accepts my son as his own. A man that wants to adopt my son. I am starting the paper work for adoption and to have my sons fathers rights taken away. I downloaded an app on mg phone last night that tells me where sexual predators live. I found out that the woman my sons father is married to is on this list for 2nd degree sexual assault. Do you ladies think that I will have a problem getting my husband to adopt my son, being my sons father doesn't try I get into contact with my son, doesn't pay child support, and his wife is on that list? Oh let me add that she has 4 kids that were taken away from her because of her history.