Ugh, so the 11 year old is doing summer school online math so he can pass 6th grade. He sucks at math, we know that, he has always struggled with it. So ds is at his dad's house doing this. He has failed 3 of 3 of the first lesson quizzes that he has done. So what does ex do? Lecture him how mom is spending so much money for him to do these classes and how he doesn't care, ds can repeat 6th grade blah blah blah blah. In other words, ex doesn't talk to the kids he talks at them. So I told him to have my 13 year old daughter call me when she wakes up. I'll have her tutor him. Oh wait, that's what I told ex to do!