My ex just texted me asking for my son tomorrow through tuesday.
Im sorry but no. NO NO NO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. He is a half ass father and he wants my son on MY DAY. Yes I get mothers and fathers day. Im sorry if I come off as entitled, but our son was just in the er about a week and a half ago.. and he did not put up any money and told me that I needed to wait if I didnt have the money right then and there for him. Which cost me 6.50 extra with bank fees and whatever to withdrawl money. Then he asks about him and then nothing else until about 5 days later when he asks about him spending the night often since its the summer.
He tells me that he is not a half ass parent. I tell him to call everyother day to talk to him. Nope. He doesnt do that.. Then he blames me for his relationship with our son. WTF.... Fuck that shit. My son is starting to hate going over there. He doesnt want to tell him in fear that he is going to get mad at him. My son sometimes ask why daddy doesnt come over and see him often. Its gotten to the point where I have said I dont know and it irratates me that I have to do his dirty work. His dad works about 6 minutes from our house. And he cant stop by because he doesnt like to be "watched" with his son, or he has some where better to be.
Im so tired of acting like none of this bothers me. Because it bothers me to no end.