So I've been talking to my ex (baby's father) and while he had been at almost every dr app so far (2 outta 3 hardly a record) he still doesn't want his name on the birth certificate until after a paternity test which he says is "for the military" so the baby will go on his insurance. My thoughts on this are if you know it's yours (which he SAYS he does with out a doubt) then why can't you put your name on the bc??
My counter to this is my baby is leaving the hospital with a last name and I'm not changing it. If his name isn't on the birth certificate she gets my name.
Is tht too harsh? Should I wait for a paternity test then award his last name? I also know that as long as his name is on the bc the military will honor the baby as his child and they do not need a paternity test. So I think it's just an excuse, which he's full of.
on Jun. 21, 2013 at 10:54 PM