If you see a man that you're attracted to and the opportunity presents itself, do YOU approach him or wait until he approaches you?
I'll be honest, I'm a punk. Big time. There was a short time when I would go after a man that I liked but it's been a long time since I've done that. Last summer, I had a huge crush on this guy. Couldn't approach him because of our positions at work and plus he's not into black chicks. I think he caught on that I had a crush on him cause I told everybody at work he used to say things to me and someone ended up telling me that I should have said something cause he knew anyway but like I said, I'm a punk. Here recently there was another guy that I found attractive but again, because of my position and his, I didn't say anything. I don't work with this guy, we just had a class together, but I saw him again. I didn't even realize it was him. I was too busy fussing at a friend because we were going to be late getting back to work. The guy noticed me and asked if I was the same person from the class. I said yeah, made small talk and got awkward and then walked away. Again, I did not approach him. I'm such a sissy, LOL.