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To fast?

Posted by on Jun. 23, 2013 at 9:31 AM
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I am going for a breakdown I swear this weekend is having all the live changing things. Like finding out I am pregnant from all 4 test I hsve taken that are positive. Well my bf's mom is pissed I am pregnant with her baby's baby. My bf is 23 will be 24 in September. So Anyway he's trying to get away from his mom and is planning to move in with me to be with me the whole pregnancy as he told me.
It's not that I don't want him to move in but it's always just been kyleigh and I now for the last year. I worry about her and how this is going to effect her. I don't know I just want her to feel okay she's only 5 so I don't know.
I was a tough night trying to fall asleep. I was thinking about this. It would be nice to have him here but I think about space and all that. I think about kyleigh. It's hard right now.

I needed to vent.
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conniejo75
by Bronze Member on Jun. 23, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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It's good he wants to be there. Why are u ok having a kid with him but not live with him? Seems your daughter would understand /accept you being pregnant if he was part of your life completely
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erinmomofone
by on Jun. 23, 2013 at 9:49 AM
Well it was a complete suprise we used protection and I was on the pill. It's just hard I guess for me it's been going so fast in my head.


Quoting conniejo75:

It's good he wants to be there. Why are u ok having a kid with him but not live with him? Seems your daughter would understand /accept you being pregnant if he was part of your life completely

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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Jun. 23, 2013 at 10:43 AM
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It's going to be a big change hugs don't listen to his mom she's not her son and pregnant and being mad doesn't change what is.  congrats and good luck!

morethanamemory
by Member on Jun. 23, 2013 at 10:48 AM
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I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.

I am sure your daughter will understand.
erinmomofone
by on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:04 AM
We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.


Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.



I am sure your daughter will understand.

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morethanamemory
by Member on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:08 AM
Kids tend to be resilient.

As long as he treats you both well she should be ok and hopefully not have that hard of a time adjusting.


Quoting erinmomofone:

We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.




Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.





I am sure your daughter will understand.

erinmomofone
by on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:13 AM
He treats us great.


Quoting morethanamemory:

Kids tend to be resilient.



As long as he treats you both well she should be ok and hopefully not have that hard of a time adjusting.




Quoting erinmomofone:

We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.






Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.







I am sure your daughter will understand.


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conniejo75
by Bronze Member on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:14 AM
It is better for her to adjust to him being there... THEN the baby instead of all at once. I wouldn't tell ur daughter about baby until u are further along and start to show.


Quoting erinmomofone:

We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.




Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.





I am sure your daughter will understand.


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erinmomofone
by on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:16 AM
I wont be telling here for a little while for sure. I want to make sure that I don't have a miscarriage.


Quoting conniejo75:

It is better for her to adjust to him being there... THEN the baby instead of all at once. I wouldn't tell ur daughter about baby until u are further along and start to show.




Quoting erinmomofone:

We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.






Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.







I am sure your daughter will understand.



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morethanamemory
by Member on Jun. 23, 2013 at 11:17 AM
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Then thats is all that matters.

It will give her time to get used to him so it doesn't throw her for a loop when him AND baby suddenly arrive.


Quoting erinmomofone:

He treats us great.




Quoting morethanamemory:

Kids tend to be resilient.





As long as he treats you both well she should be ok and hopefully not have that hard of a time adjusting.






Quoting erinmomofone:

We do plan to be together. My daughter is only 5.








Quoting morethanamemory:

I say go for it since you two are having a baby and if you plan to be together.









I am sure your daughter will understand.


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