Hi. I'm new here, and have a problem. My son's sperm donor (aka biological father) left before he was born, and not on particularly good terms. It's a very messy story, and not one a 3 year old can understand. His babysitter is a SAHM with a great husband and two kids of her own. Of course, he has now realized that there are families with dads, and has been asking, and I don't know what to say!
What should I say? What kind of information should I give him? He's only three, what will he understand?
i have no idea where the father is now or what he is doing. He is not on the birth certificate, and has made no effort to be involved.
Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!