I am in the middle of getting a divorce and I have been out of a job since last year. I just got my insurance licence for Property and casulty and I have to wait three months (40 home and auto and 4 life policies) before I get any benefits or even a steady paycheck. The X who has been out of a job since March got a job and started a new job with benefits and everything right away.
I feel like crap because I have been in the crapper for so long and now that I have something to show the court to get my kids with me so they aren't ping ponged around and finally have a stable place to stay. And he can just wave his full time employment and look like a freaking hero. What am I to do???