I don't remember if I posted about this before here but my ex MIL is a damn ....... You know what, I don't even have the word for it but from now on I will just call her Harpie (got this from a friend in another group)
Anyway, short background, she only uses my kids when it makes her look good. She doesn't care about them. For Christmas, she refused to get them anything and said the reason being was that she didn't see them enough to buy them anything.
Alright, HARPIE, you never ask ME, THEIR MOTHER to see them. You only ask your son, who thinks you are a Harpie too, of course he's going to say NO. If it really means that much to you to see them,you'd go straight to the source, ME. It is NOT my job to beg you to see them like you think it is.
Anyway, once that happened (and a 10-year long list of other things) I said to my ex, from my point of view she has disowned them so she can go to hell.
I recently found out that a few months ago, she wrote a note on the fridge to my ex (I think it was right before he moved out of her place) that since she never sees them, then she doesn't HAVE grandkids!
I am of two minds about this -- on one hand, GREAT! They don't need the bitch anyway. On the other hand, HOW FUCKING DARE YOU TREAT MY KIDS LIKE THAT.
It was HER meddling and her bullshit triffling that helped end my marriage (by no means am I blaming ALL of my divorce on her, but she was part of it) and now she wants to bitch that she doesn't see them. FUCK HER AND THE HORSE SHE RODE IN ON.