Seriously, how on earth do you do it?!! I need to know!!!
I don't know where or how to start but I guess I should start from when I took out my Jadelle contraceptive last December. Prior to that I had had an aggressive sexual drive. When I wanted sex which was almost all the time or when I didn't have much occupying my mind, it was with a very strong desire, like "I have to have it now!" kind of desire.
However, the contraceptive caused me a hormonal imbalance and I had to take it out. My libido dipped, thankfully but then I noticed my desires had become different. At first, it was subtle, the urge was still strong but in a quiet way. I don't know if I'm communicating it effectively but, it was still strong but not loud. Plus, it began to feel more feminine.
Masturbation was no longer satisfying, I began to crave emotional sex. To cut the long story short, during ovulation or just before my period, I get insanely horny in the "quiet manner" I described above and when I don't indulge , I get really cranky and irritable. I've observed this for 3 months now.
I read here of some people who haven't heard sex in months and years, how do you cope? Don't you have hormone induced body responses etc?
Sorry, it's long.