So, my children are visiting their dad. This is the first time he has had them in a year. He lives in North Carolina. We have a 10 year old girl and two boys 8 and 6. He has pretty much been in and out their entire life. Well, of course they are doing fun things and having a blast. My 10 year old told me she wanted to live with her dad. She wasn't malicious about it. She is still there so I didn't want to discuss it. I told her in a couple years maybe. She said ok. She didn't seemed bothered by the answer. I was so freaking hurt though.
I love them so much. I spend time with them, care for them, put them in activities, make sure they eat right, go to school. ect ect. Then he spends one week with them and our daughter wants to go live with him. Then on top of that I guess she had some mild cramps and her step mom just thought she might start her period. She explained all that to my daughter. That is something I wanted to do. Blah. Anyway, I don't know if that is normal. I don't know if I should be so hurt about it.