ok let me start by saying i was a single mom for a couple of years but i was lucky enough to find DF i have two kids ds who is 5 and dd who is 1. this thur im going to court for custody for ds i have been going threw is now since 2010 last year primary custody got granted to ds dad with me only seeing ds 3weekends a month and every wed. for like 2 hours. the g.a.l said he got p.c because the schools are better where his dad is and i was unstable (had him at 17 and moved like 5times within the 1st year of his life but once i turned 18 i got my own place and staied there for 2years and ive been at my current palce for another 2years) anyways alot has happend since the last court date and things are looking really good for me. well just like before the last court date ds dad will threatin that if i get him full time then hes going to pack his things and leave. tries to put this guilt trip on me saying all he had was me and his son and now all he has is his son and if i take that from him then he has nothing and theres no reason for him to be here. hes always been more on the depressed side. ive tried to explain to him that regardless of what happens his son will always need him if he was to just walk away it would affect our son in a really bad way (he loves and looks up to his father alot) i would never keep our son from him. i mean i just went a year only seeing him 9days a month so i know how it feels to not have him so i would let him get him extra time. ive even told the g.a.l that id like for his father to have him every weekend instead of just 3. even thow were no longer together i still care about what happenends to him and i know how depressed he can get and how he gets and i want him to live his life and be happy not just for hiself but also for our son. so i guess what im asking is, does anyone have any advice if i do get ds on how to handle his dad. also one more thing his dad tells our son everything that a child dose not need to know so im scared that if things go in my favor hes going to tell him mommy is taking you from me or someting along those lines.