Need advice so please share your thoughts, opinions, and experiences. I currently have a 5 mo daughter. Her father has made it clear that he has NO interest in supporting or seeing her ever. I realize that he could change his mind someday although I doubt it. We were not married and he is not listed on her birth certificate so technically he has no rights to her wo a paternity test, which he doesn't want to take. So my question is should I go to court and have him established as her father and file for sole custody or just leave well enough alone since I am technically the only person that has custody and rts to our daughter??? Also I am not going after him for support bc I don't want him to be spiteful and get visitation only to drop her off w his evil mother. Thoughts .... Thanks.
on Jul. 10, 2013 at 9:04 PM