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venting and just tired of my ex

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5 yrs ago I met my daughters father we met on the bus going to Texas I was going to visit my mom and he was going to visit his aunt and cousins in tx he was staying with them for a month and I was staying wi th my mom for 3 weeks he was from minnesota and I was from iowa we only lived 2 hours apart we really hit it off and we exchanged email address and found out w
Have been talkin to eachother on a chat site so thought that was cool because we never intented too meet so we did on accident so came to stay with me at my moms house for a week and thenhe went back to his aunt house my mom had a heart attack while I was there my aunralso drove from iowa to see my mom the same time we went there so it was weird how it worked out that way my mom had us there when she needed us my mom had to have a quadrupal bipass surgery so I decided to stay in texas to help take care of my mom she was in the hospital 2 weeks she came home and I waited to take a pregnancy test but I took one when she came home and found out I was pregnant that was 3 weeks after my daughters father was staying at my moms with me we were a couple he would call me everyday for a month I told him I was pregnant and then he stopped calling me and he changed his number I stayed in Texas 2yrs later after my daughter was born I. Found him on fb and then told him about our daughter and he acted like he wanted to be a part of her life but I understood he couldn't come to texas because it can get exspensive but dec 2011 my mom brother and my daughter and I moved. Myback to iowa so my mom could be close to rochester minnesota to get her cancer treatments we found out my mom had vulvar cancer in october 2011 so we wanted to and move back to iowa so we could be close to our family and friends so my daughters father met our daughter in april 2012 and he acted like he wanted to be in her life he came to visit us every 3 weeks and he said it would be great if we could be a family so he did spend time with our daughter and I. Then all of a sudden in july 2012 he stopped calling me and checking on our daughter she started school and he acted like he didn't care I have to take her to a specialist to help me figure out what kind of help she needs for her dis abilty last time I talked to him was in april for 5 minutes and he didn't even ask to talk to our daughter ! Anyway we were back together last yr and I had to find out on fb he had a new gf without telling me and she is so annoying likes everything he posts if I tag him in and
by on Jul. 12, 2013 at 9:33 AM
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by on Jul. 13, 2013 at 10:28 AM
I hope so
by on Jul. 13, 2013 at 10:38 AM
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people will do what they want to be doing.  if there is something they want?  they will find a way to get it.  you need to focus on you and your daughter.  try going back to school.  it sounds more like you are sad that you don't have the perfect marriage and a white picket fence.  he lives with his mommy for God's sake.  God is probably doing you a favor by keeping him at a distance.  he doesn't sound like a man of much character.  find a church or some support groups and get yourself together.  you cannot keep him from breaking your daughters heart, but you can give her a wonderful life with a happy home!  it sounds like you think things would be better if you and he were together or he was more a part of your life.  i think you should be thankful he is far away and change your expectations of him.  expect nothing. succeed in your own life.  you need to get your confidence back...and it certainly does not lay with him.

by on Jul. 14, 2013 at 11:19 AM

hugs i'm sorry he's doing this to her

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