My ex who just returned in our son's life this past March after not seeing him for a year txted me happy birthday yesterday. And shoved a card in my mailbox when I came home from work. He did ask if I was home and let me know he was going to quick drop it off(along with mutual friends that had cards too btw). We haven't been together for 2 years and he pulls this crap off. I txted our mutual friends, thanked them for the card and I did not open up the ex's. I immediately ripped it apart and tossed it in the trash. If I had a backyard I'd burn it,lol. My son didn't see me doing this. I txted him prior and told him 'I know you were being nice but please don't wish me happy birthday anymore or send me cards. We're not friends, just exes. Just remeber Zac's(our son) birthday." He txted back 'I wanted to do it, it's a special day. I'm not going to be mean just cause you're my ex." Some of you may think I'm being a bitch, but if you went through the emotional abuse and some physical abuse I have, then you'd be just as cold. He has a new gf, he should please her. If I ever meet her if things get serious between them to the point our son would meet her, I'd tell warn her. God bless her too if she has to deal with his moocher family too,lol. Anywho, what would you ladies do?