Afraid my ex is going to try to take my daughter away from me!
Okay me and my ex have been seperated for over 6 months now he lives in missouri and I live in Illinois, he's finally going to file for divorce (thank goodness) right now we have a aggrement that our daughter is with me through out the week and she goes to her dad's every weekend! I plan on starting cosmetology school in september it will take a year if I go full time and it will take 18 months if I go part time! Well my plans were to have my daughter stay at her dad's while i'm going to school ( if I go full time) for a year and then after I graduate go back to were she stay's with me during the week and goes to her dad's on the weekends, well the other day he called me and we were talking about it and we were going to have her start preschool were he lives which is in missouri, well he told me that he called the school were she will be going to preschool at and he said the lady told him that if she is advanced enough she could start kindergarten the next year which would make her 4 years old, well he was saying that even after I graduate he doesn't think it would be a good idea for her to come back to me if she's going to be in kindergarten because he doesn't think it would be good for her to have to change school's like that! Well this is were it's becoming scary to me I feel like his trying to take her away from me ( even though he's said he would never do that) I've never even heard of a 4 year old starting kindergarten I alway's thought they started when they were 5 I fell like he's using that as excuse to keep her from me and it's scaring the shit out of me I don't want to lose my little girl I haven't been able to sleep because i've been thinking about it so much, I don't know what to do!
Please I could really use so advice! I don't want to lose my baby she's my world i'm at a point were i'm thinking about giving school up all together and just getting a job, but I don't want to do that because I want to make a better life for my daughter and me!