Ive been online dating for 2 years with no luck. Finally met a good one. He's 39, no kids, divorced and he lives 40 minutes away. The best part is that he is always asking ME to do things! Ever since I started dating Ive felt like i have to make ALL the effort with guys and do all the planning. This is a change for me. He's come here and taken me to lunch twice and we did the dinner and a movie thing last weekend. He's respectful and nice. This weekend we are going to take a bike ride, he has two bikes and rides all the time and I've been wanting to start. Im excited! The only bad thing is that he is a union pipeliner so when he works, he's gone for months at a time. But i just keep telling myself i will cross that bridge when we get there. Not gonna fret about it now. He said he usually works all winter and takes summers off.