So almost 4 years ago I took my ex to court for custody. He agreed that I could have full custody. He was granted supervised visitation at a visitation center. He never set it up. My daughter will be 5 in October and he hasn't seen her since her 1st birthday. He hasn't even called to ask to see her. He is about $17,000 behind in CS. Won't keep a job. Well out of nowhere I got a letter from the court saying that during his last visit to talk to someone about his CS he wanted to start visitation. We have an appt. aug 7th to sit with a mediator to discuss his visitation. I am nervous. The only time I see/hear from him is when we have to go to court about his CS, which the last time was this past September. She does not know who she is, she has no memory of him. I don't even talk about him around her. If he does start his visitation what should I tell her? After talking to my best friend who knows him, she thinks this is just another thing for him to try and save face with his friends because they all think he is the father of the year. He moves around a lot too. Help!!!
on Jul. 29, 2013 at 10:35 AM