Venting.....how the hell did my child support case get denied?!?
Background info...My sons 4 1/2 he was born in 2008. I filed for child-support soon after but never received anything.The father was incarcerated in 2009 my case was closed until later when he was released. He became in contact with me threw his brother who was the only person in his family that stayed in contact with me for son.The father tried to win me back but I had no interest except for my son having his father in his life..I reopened my child-support case again. Later in 2011 my child-support case was closed by the county I live in because the father was incarcerated AGAIN for reason I did not know , then. December 2012 I wrote one letter to my sons father pretty much giving him a piece of my mind he responded very nicely asking for pictures and etc, I never responded (didn't want to). Feb 21st 2013 he was released, the child-support office told me I could reopen my case so Feb 22nd I reapplied. As I was getting as much info as I could on him I found out he was and is now a Registered Sex Offender 290. So I'm assuming this is why he was recently incarcerated this last time.
Flash forward....Today I went to court because although I could care less if he ever gets visitation right with my son I do think he should still support my son. I'm in school and had to leave early to attend court. The asshole never showed. I waited for 2hrs just to be told by the judge that since they had no evidence he was released he had to deny my case...WTF!!!
First of all as a Registered 290 Sex Offeneder you have to report your address...HIS IS ONLINE SHOWING WHY HE WAS ARRESETED W/HIS PIC AND SHOWING HIS ADDRESS!
Secondly the child-support served him...not me so how the hell did they not have evidence he was released?!?
Thirdly....the child-support denied my case in Jan 2013 because he was still incarcerated told me he would be released Feb 21st and for me not to reapply till he was out. So how in the hell do they not know he's no longer incarcerated?
I was so angry, here he is going about his life making more and more babies with different women, not taking care of any of them including mine and I take 2hrs of class time out and pay the stupid $7 parking fee just to be denied!!! I'm still teary eyed over this....
Btw yes I did call my local support office and they apologized to me even saying that it made no sense to why he denied me but they will pursue this case further. Didn't make me feel better but what am I supposed to do?
Vent over...thanks for listening =/