So I closed POF acct and opened OKCupid but it is essentially the same BS but seems to have slightly higher quality men than POF.
I met this guy last night since I was kidless. He is 42, childless and only married a very short time to a woman he met in South America. He worked in SA for several years at his old job and the marriage did not work out, she was too young but she moved to the US and they are still friends. They married and divorced in SA but as of right now she is living with him in his spare bedroom. She had her own apt, lost her job, broke her lease, moved in with him and got a job and says she is moving out in Nov as soon as her friend's lease is up so they can move out together. He said any romantic relationship is long over but he does not want her homeless so for now they are roommates. It is a little odd and he said if its a dealbreaker he will ask her to move out but since this is a temp arrangement and she has agreed to move out in Nov he hopes its not a big deal. i have only been out one with him so honestly I do not have any opinions on this. He did tell me before we met his ex lives with him and he really hoped thats not a dealbreaker .
On another note...he is educated, tall and good looking, nice body/build and educated. However he is soft spoken. Not quite feminine but a little softer spoken than what I am used too. He made it clear he want to see me again, we can take it slow and see what develops and told me he thinks I am super beautiful and the best looking woman in our age range that he has met in a long time.
Super courteous. He walked me to my car, and while we were in the restaraunt i went to the bathroom and when I came back he stood up for me.
He is overall a really nice guy. What do you think?