Baby daddy and I split up sometime ago bc he cheated and just dropped off the earth for a couple weeks. Imediately following the break up I was dropping the kids off at his house every other weekend. The first time my son came home and said that he was katy's (the new girlfriend) hiney and my daughter came home with severe diaper rash to the point where it blistered and didn't go away for 2 weeks. I thought this was inappropriate and I let daddy know about it. The second time I dropped them off the girlfriend was sleeping upstairs and when she came down she looked like a train wreck and I could smell the alcohol on her from across the house. Mind you it was 6:00 in the evening on a friday night. When I picked them up at 10:00 Sunday morning the kids were just eating breakfast and I could smell the alcohol on daddy and he looked like hell. So, for the last 4.5 months I have not let him keep the children at his house. I do allow him to come to my home and see the kids as often as he wants (which averages out to about 3 hrs every 3 weeks). Recently, he had demanded his weekends back and told me that I had no right to keep his kids from his girlfriend and if I don't give his weekends back then he will take me to court. So...I thought about it for a few days and decided that maybe I should give him another shot and really it is not right to keep the girlfriend from the kids. The day I was gonna call and let him know he could have his weekends back I found out that a few days earlier the cops were called to his house and his girl was arrested and charged with assult bc she was hitting him and apparently she was drunk. As a result her parents enrolled her in some kind of rehab to try and get out of the assult charge. Now, I am thinking that I should let him take me to court because I think that it is in my children's best interest not to be around his abusive alcoholic girlfriend and I would like the court records to reflect that. What would you do?