I know I'm preaching to the chior here, but here it goes. I have three girls 3, 4, and 9 they are the joy of my life and also my biggest headache. Working, kids, and dealing with my ex seem to have become my life and yet I feel guilty if I want to send the girls to a babysitter on a day when they are with me so I can go have some me time at something fun, so I don't. I onlhy plan things when they are with their dad. I date but it never goes anywhere because I'm to terrified to bring someone else into their life that;s going to break their heart like the divorce did. I feel trapped in my house some days and then feel guilty because I do. There has to be a balance here but I have yet to find it. Any advice would be very welcome!!!