So my sons father has decided that he wants to sign over his rights to our son. Calvin is 3 and I left his father in April this year and since then his father has wanted nothing to do with him, only to fight with me. I have tried to get him to keep his son weither it be for a few hours or over night and he has denied it every time. So last night he told me he just wants to sign over his rights and let us be that he will never be a good father. He's told me he will never pay any form of CS that's ordered by a judge (and this is about right of him because he wont). I was going to make some phone calls today and see what needed to be done or could be done but has anyone done this? If he's really done can I make this go any faster by doing anything else? If it's done I will have to be the one to do it. I don't trust the man and someone has been to my new place twice now recently doing crap that shouldn't be done. I have reported it to the police and I do believe some of it may have been him. I guess I just need help and wanted to know if any other moms out there have been in my shoes and what I can do.