Im gonna make this short. My ex has only came to see my dd a few times and rarely pays his chump change child support. Haven't seen him in months besides this last Thursday. He claims he takes good care of dd, and pays so much in child support. He accuses me of spending all of the money he pays (which he hasn't paid in who knows how long) on n*****. He says he'd give me more money if I didn't have (and I quote) "the white man on him." He came Thursday out of the blue unannounced saying he was un jail. This could be true or a lie I truly dont know or care. Almost EVERYTHING out of his mouth is a lie. No lie! Anyways, let me first say ge must have rung the doorbell about 20 mins. Yes I was trying to avoid him. He begins to act a fool bi tell him to come another day and call I just couldn't deal with him that day. Well he just was being argumentative so I decide to just leave in my car to go to the store with dd. Well he wouldnt let me leave. He wouldn't allow me to close the car door. I begin to get upset. Just please leave. He doesn't so I go in the house and he barges In refusing to leave and claiming I hang out with hella "n*****" (untrue, irrelevant and...ignorant).
Eventually I call police cause he won't leave. After arguing and lying to the police he eventual leaves.. so I thought. When he was walking away I got in my car and drove around thinking id go back home When he and the police are gone. 15 mins later I come he has his shirt off and is being arrested! Why he came back; why was he getting arrested? I don't know and didn't care to ask.
One of the officers told me to get a custody arrangearrangembt so he cant take off with dd. But im scared he'll get any custody over her. He's truly not missing something. He's so not smart you dont even know and hes a compulsive liar. I don't know WHAT I was thinking. But idk what to do. I live in ca. Should I go for custody and risk him getting partial custody or just wait to see if he will file sonething??
on Sep. 9, 2013 at 3:25 AM