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Posted by on Sep. 21, 2013 at 11:20 PM
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married before, why did it end? (If you don't mind sharing.)

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by on Sep. 21, 2013 at 11:20 PM
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moosesmom
by Silver Member on Sep. 21, 2013 at 11:20 PM
Infidelity. I could only take so much.
virginiamama71
by Carrie on Sep. 21, 2013 at 11:23 PM

 We finally accepted that we were not compatiable.

cjsmom1
by Gold Member on Sep. 22, 2013 at 4:29 PM

bump

diaperstodating
by Angel on Sep. 22, 2013 at 4:48 PM

Infidelity.

pedritosmama
by Member on Sep. 22, 2013 at 5:12 PM

He relented all decision making in our marriage to his father.  Whenever I did not go along with what his father wanted me to do, my husband just left me---while I was pregnant.  So yeah.

Robsessed98
by on Sep. 22, 2013 at 5:50 PM
#1 was a narcissistic control freak. #2 is long & complicated.
PKOERNER
by Member on Sep. 22, 2013 at 10:10 PM
His early midlife crisis and Infidelity
Eyelashes23
by Member on Sep. 22, 2013 at 10:11 PM
He cheated and in top of that I wasn't in love with him anymore
LifeCafe42
by Nora on Sep. 22, 2013 at 10:44 PM
Never have been never plan on it
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lightoftheworld
by Member on Sep. 22, 2013 at 11:43 PM
Its never just one thing, but our biggest issues were that he was very passive- wouldnt lead our family, wouldnt set goals (or achieve them), and wouldnt help me make decisions

The straw that broke the camals back was when he had been a SAHD (a terrible one!) and then decided he wanted to return to college for some pipe dream degree that would never support our family. He wanted to pay for it entirely in student loans and use student loans to pay for daycare for our 3 girls. I wasnt willing to take on that much debt, but he refused to work part time.

Now I have moved to a different state and support myself and the kids with minimal child support. He is still living at home with his parents 2 years post-separation, going to college, racking up debt and working at a hot wings restaurant. (I should note that while we were married, he refused to go back to waiting tables because he felt he was too good for that, he prefered to remain unemployed and play xbox)
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