bio dad upset because I didnt let him see our son: am I right?
Bio dad texted me on Sat morning and he said he was going to be visiting him but late, around 10 pm and that even if my son was in bed, he wanted to give him a hug.
I agreed as we have an open door visting arrangement and bio dad tragically lost his sister a week ago.
he confirmed aa the day went by and said 10 pm.
then at 10:30,, no show, no text so I texted him and I told him that I was going to bed and I ending my text saying good nite. To me that meant do not come over.
1107 he texted saying "I am coming over anyway, will be there in 20 m". I didnt answer
11:30 pm the phone started ringing. 5 calls.I didn't want to answer as it was really late.
he left a message saying "I am in your area".
He lives 60 miles aay by the way.
then he texted quite angry words.
it sounds to me as if he was in my area for other reasons and then he wanted to come over.but he should have understood I was not going to answer the door.
yes, bad communication from each side
but does he have any grounds to get upset? now he obviosuly says eh will never try again to see his son and that he at least tried
it has been february since he saw him.my son is 2btw