So my ex hasn't seen our daughter in months, partly the navy's fault but he isn't trying as hard as he used to to be involved in her life. He met a girl, their dating, she has two kids. I'm fine with it, I shrug it off even though part of me still loves him (we've been together six years, it's hard to just drop it all). Anyways, in 9 days he's coming on vacation with my daughter and I so they can hangout and bond a little plus his step brothers wedding is in two weeks. We were all going to stay at his mothers house but now my ex wants to bring his new gf to meet everyone. His family told him no, the bride & groom said no & I said no but I don't think he's going to listen. So what do I do if he does bring her? How do I act? I don't want him to think I still love him and I don't want her to think she's superior cz she has him. The mans a cheating ass hat. I know I should keep my temper in check and play nice but its going to be SOOOOO hard!!! What kind of person goes on a vacation and wedding their not wanted at anyways?? Since he met her hes been a bigger jerk and has cut off his friendship with me. I'm trying to get over him, I know I deserve better but right now I just need to survive this vacation with him and her. Our daughter has told me she doesn't want her to come but I don't think he believes me and if she tells him I think he'll think I'm saying bad things. Which I do just only to his mother lol, i'd never do that to our daughter. So what do I do? How do I act? What do I say? His mother doesn't want the girl in her house so should I allow them time at the park for an hour or two then say goodbye everyday for seven days straight? Help plz!!! Sry if this is all over the place.. Let me know if you ave questions..