My bf and I went a little further into our relationship then I thought we would on Saturday night. We got phyiscal. We both wanted it. It happened and felt good at the same time. Then I saw another side to him after that. We went to a sports bar to watch some football games. He got upset that his football team lost and took it out on me. He said that I don't appreciate his teams and he dislikes mine. He said that its hard to watch the same games when he doesn't want to cheer on my teams. He was being a total jackass about this. At least to me. I know some guys get irritated when their teams lose. I even get that way. But, I would never take out my frustrations on the guy I'm dating because of it. We went back to his place to talk things over. He then brought up the distance that we live between us (an hour drive). He said that he liked me very much and wanted to be with me still. He finally came out and told me why he was on-line on Match.com when I saw him. I never did ask him. He simply brought it up. He said that he was e-mailing this other woman but that he wasn't interested in her after two e-mails. That he liked me instead and still does. He said that I was over analyzing the football score and his need to watch his teams with his friends. That if we were to watch football together we would have to watch the ones he likes as he thinks I won't appreicate his teams. I tried to reason with him and that I wanted to learn more about his teams. That I loved football and it didn't matter who was playing. We both have our favoriate teams. I felt like I was getting annoyed. It was midnight and I was getting tired. He kissed me goodbye and said that I was over analyzing everything. Then he hugged me and I drove off. He didn't call me yesterday. I'm not calling him. He has shown another side to him that I'm not sure of. Red flags? Perhaps. We have only been dating for a month. If it's meant to be then it is. He has to be wiling to man up and apologize. If he doesn't then I'm done. Sucks to find someone that I like then be hit with this.
Anyone dating someone right now? Are you going through similiar things? Any word of advise would be helpful. I'm hurting today.