See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So my son is in the other room watching cartoons and he comes running the other room where my mom and I are cleaning up and he asks my mom why he doesn't have a real daddy. He says that he know he has step daddies but why doesn't he have a real dad. He also wants to know why I don't want to get married because he wants brothers and sisters and a dad.
Now to clarify he only refers to 2 people as daddy. One being my dad (he passed 2 years ago) and then one being my ex but he calls him his "church daddy" because that's where he 1st met him when he was 4 yrs old. When I introduced them I told my son that he was his daddy but for some reason I guess my son never figured it out.
My ex comes around twice a year. He comes around for Christmas and then he comes to see my son on his bday in Jan. I thought he knew that his "church daddy" was his real dad. Should I tell my son that his "church dad" is his real dad??
Is this confusing lol