A little history: divorced 3 years. Custodial parent of 13 year-old son and 9 year old daughter since. In Texas, at 13, a child can state who he wants to live with. My son wants to live with his dad. Although he's a good father in many ways, I don't think that's a good idea. Hence the Modification of Child Custody Case.
The judge I am facing tomorrow - YES! I said tomorrow!! - has been know to ask both parents: "Why do you think you are the better choice of parent to continue raising this child?" I cannot say "because I gave birth to him." There are so many reasons why, but becasue of the stress, it is all jumbled up in my head.
Please advise on this situation. Thanks!