So let me run something by you to see if I'm going to do something about it or not. Apparantly my ex has been halfway across the country for the past week and won't be back until next Friday. He has been texting me as if he's been at home this whole time and has been going about business like he's home. I'm not sure why he didn't tell me, but whatever. So his new wife has adjusted her schedule so that she can pick up my son when he's normally picked up and he's been spending time with her all week. Now, I don't mind if they spend some time together, but that's taking time away from me. If I go out of town, I let them know and DS stays with them. So my question is--should I tell him that when he goes out of town then he stays with me or should I just drop it. She doesn't have custody with him, he does and if he died tomorrow, she wouldn't share custody with me. So if he goes out of town, I should be able to spend a little more time with MY child, right? Going to confront him about lying to me anyway, just want to know how to handle future business trips.