Why does it always turn sexual right away? Dating and single mommyhood?
Okay so I recently became newly single and have a 5 y/o daughter. I have been on dating sites to meet someone. I get a lot of responses and only respond to a couple.I am 30 yrs. old, slender but boobs and a slight butt (lol), attractive.
So I went to a guy's house for a date. He was rubbing my neck and then was placing his hands around my waist and kind of rubbing my stomach. He was sad to see me leave and he did kiss me before I left and I him. I only stayed for 2 hrs. He didnt offer me anything alcoholic bc he said he knew I had to drive. He's single, moved here from iowa, and has an 11 y/o son from a previous relationship. He still lives with his mom in that state. He moved here bc of work.
anyways he kept saying things like "wow you're so cute" etc. and "you're in great shape" when he felt my waist/stomach (with clothes on).
anyways the next day he texted me "good morning cutie". and then he began sexting me. He was saying how he would kiss me all over my "milk white skin" and I said "where would you kiss me first?" He said "haha good". He then sexted he would "kiss you down your cute face, down your neck, down your breasts all the way to your flat tummy, then I would look up at you while I kiss your belly button and keep kissing down, down, until i reach the moun d of your p*ssy, where I would make you split open with my tongue, tonguing each lip and inside until you squirm and c*m". I must admit I was turned on by this.
But now our texts are mainly sexual, mostly him being that way. He will talk that way first. He said today while he's at work "I want to see a video of you rubbing your p*ssy when you're wet. i want you to finger yourself for me in the video."
this was after he texted me a video of him jacking off which I didn't ask for but did appreciate. Next fri we were gonna meet again, and at first I suggested the movies out, and he said okay, but then later said if I could just come there and cuddle with him. I said "we can't cuddle in public?" and he said "yeah but not that intimately."
anyways this will happen a lot with guys (and they're all from online site). They act interested in me, they act nice, then they suddenly get really horny and explicit on me.
Why is this? I don't dress slutty or anything, I look like a "good girl" actually, I don't come onto them, i smile and act kinda innocent, so why does it always have to go sexual right away? And does it mean he just wants me for sex?