DDs grandma on her fathers side pushed me too far just now. She asks me about DD daily, so I've kept her up to date on her kidney infection. Today, she began bombarding me with "She doesn't drink enough water" and "You don't change her diaper enough".
DDs pedi thinks she may have something going on internally that's causing these infections (this is her second one). Grandma, who is a medical assistant but thinks she knows more than a doctor, thinks I neglect DD.
"If my granddaughter isn't getting proper care, believe u me I will see it she does"
After having her send me a crap load of pictures of my ex and I way before DD when we were together, claiming he loves me, then this, I have had it.
"I am a GOOD mother. I take GOOD care of her. She has everything she needs. I care for her 24/7. If you are going to assume I don't care for her properly, I will stop updating you on her day to day health. I will only let you know what the xray says about her kidneys. She is a VERY pampered little girl. Just because she's had two kidney infections does NOT mean I don't care for her. And please, do me a favor. Do NOT send me any more pictures of your son and I together. He does NOT love me, and I do NOT love him."
If she wants to talk about DD getting proper care, maybe she should look at the fact that her precious little boy refuses to visit her and thinks child support makes up for time lost. Her precious little coke addict boy...she raised him in an environment where he was allowed to drink at a young age (younger than 12), was allowed to smoke, allowed to do cocaine and ecstasy in front of her...she even helped him get away with carrying a huge bag of ecstasy pills that he was going to sell. He was caught by the police, drunk and wondering the streets, and the cops called her. She knew he had drugs on him and that he was drunk. She screamed at the cops and he got away.
My fault for picking him, but she's one to talk about proper care.