So, I have certain people asking if I'm gonna send my ex's family an emailed picture (from the cd) from my son's first grade. I said I would think about it, but I'm leaning towards no.
I have my reasons, which I feel I don't need to explain because surely there are people in this group who wouldn't either.
But I wanna know - what would be the benefit anyway, for my 6 year old, who has not received a birthday or c hristmas gift, a phone call, or even a birthday card? I haven't received a phone call from the family in a year and a month now. I'm done communicating with them. I have tried e-mails, phone messages - nothing. I get nothing in return.
Sometimes I get sentimental and get certain "thoughts" in my head that if I send a picture, maybe it will motivate the family to be more active but I am more than aware this will not happen because if it was meant to be, it would have worked out by now. BUt it seems like ex and the family are more distant. Plus, they had two new granbabies born last year (one from ex's wife and one by ex's sister).