**NOTE** If you have NO relationship with your kid(s) dad(s), then this post DOES NOT include you.
Now with that being said, I don't have one with my daughter's dad. He's not someone that I call up whenever and have DD talk to him. Back in August, I told hom via Facebook, that I didn't think he was that great of a parent. He acknowledged that he wasn't. Hasn't done much to change that.
Anyway, I went back through my phone to see when the last time was that he called DD. The last call they had was 10/20/13 on Facetime. He called because I'm guessing he had his son with him. He hasn't called since and it's been a month. I'm not upset about it but I'm wondering if I'm the wrong one because I don't call him for her anymore. I really don't feel like that's my responsibility. I've already told him how I felt about him and he admitted to not being a very good parent so it's not like he doesn't know. Personally, I just don't have time to be chasing him to force him to be an active parent. It is what it is. If he keeps this up, then DD will form her own opinion but I just have too much going on right now to be worried about calling him.
How do you ladies do it? The ones who have ACTIVE phone numbers for their exes. Not trying to be rude but I really don't want to read stories about how you don't call your kid's dads because he left you for the slut that worked at Hooters and you haven't heard from in the 6+ months. No interest what so ever.