Not that I need to add more complexity to my life, I have a situation that I'm not sure how to proceed. Before I was married, I only had one goal in mind ... to get married. So, when I found a man I would go exclusive pretty immediately and I'd be in it for at least 3 years.
Now I don't have that goal in mind. I just want to enjoy my life and if a man is able to fit into my life great!
So, now I'm going on my third date with one guy and I have a second date planned with another guy. The one that I've been on a couple dates already (let's call him M) seems like we are moving towards a relationship to be built. The other guy (calling him A) is interesting, but I'm not as attracted to him though I have a good time with him. I feel like I might be stringing A along because I'm not really into him as much as M and there's a very good chance that the next date would be the last. Should I even bother having the date?
I don't have regular dates with M, more time than I would on a date each time let's just say. A. I can only tolerate for 2 hours at a time max.
But at the same time, I don't want to go completely exclusive after knowing M for 1 month. I really am attracted to him and I like him a lot, but I want to pace myself.
I'm so confused.